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THE TASK OF IDENTIFICATION PART 1

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THE TASK OF IDENTIFICATION Who do you think you are? Well I’m glad you asked. I can as most assertive people, be able to give you a clear description of who I am. But few people can actually boast of a definite description of who they are. And no, I don’t mean your physical features or the works you have accomplished in your time on earth so far. I am talking about a clear concise one paragraph personal statement of who you are. Most employers when asking for your personal objective in your resume are really just asking you to describe yourself in one paragraph.  Most prospective employees sadly, copy the identification of someone else or something fancy off the internet. In identifying who you are, there are some sub questions that will help in your definition. Now this is more like an appraisal of the exact thought you have for yourself.  WHAT AM I  When you look in the mirror, what do you see? What does your reflection te
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IDENTITY CRISIS

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IDENTITY CRISIS Introduce me as delightful and splendid. That was the definition girls liked to give themselves in my junior high school. I guess at that time, there was a lot of identity crisis going on and everyone was trying to define themselves away from the childish pedestals, we had otherwise assumed on ourselves while in primary school. We all go through some identification definition at different facets of our existence here on earth. What do we think of ourselves at every season of our lives?  This has a way to determine the definition you give or not give yourself. It also means that we are constantly redefining our humanity based on our thoughts. WHO AM I?  These three words have caused wars and rumors of wars between desire and responsibility. Between spontaneity and self-discipline.  If you cannot say distinctly that this is who you are at any given time in your life, then you have defined yourself by one word CONFUS
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IT WILL ALWAYS BE YOUR CHOICE!

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A friend of mine put up some pictures on his social media platform a while ago. There were memories about an aspect of his life that he was grateful for and really appreciative about. There were a lot of known faces in those pictures. Some I know have personally have gone off their paths of purpose and are trying to get their lives back and people who have made something of great importance out of their lives on earth. Then I saw this picture and I was really saddened. In the particular picture were 3 guys. At that point, they looked the same, lost. They had issues in their lives and I could say that they were on the same level because I knew them then. “You may not be responsible for the place where you are born and the experience of your birth. But, you are very responsible for your future and the experience that would invariably occur because of your choices.” When you are faced with a brick wall or when you are faced with an impossible situation or a very hard life
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17 REASONS NOT TO HAVE SEX ON VALENTINE’S DAY ( PART III)

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The final part to the 3-part series on 17 reasons not to have sex on valentine's day is here. I am sure you have learned from me. i pray that you make the right decisions going forward. #13. NO PLAN IS A PLAN I was speaking with someone and she related that a friend in her university was a virgin but had no reason for being and staying a virgin. She started dating a fellow student and decided to have sex with him should he ask her to, why? Because he was very good to her. Since she didn’t have a reason and a plan or being and keeping her virginity, then if anything happens, she is willing to flow. If you don’t have a plan not to sleep around this valentine season, then you may just sleep around because you don’t have a plan! #14. PREGNANCY Please don’t be tricked with some silly family planning method you choose. Those things are 50/50. The possibility of getting pregnant is as high as your assurance of protection. Do not delay your plans for a good future or totall
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17 REASONS NOT TO HAVE SEX ON VALENTINE’S DAY ( PART II)

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And I am here with the part 2 of my series 17 reason not to have sex this valentine. Remember that you cans end me an email to askyelelive@gmail.com or put up your questions in the comment section and i would reply you. You can also contact me through my Facebook and Instagram channel. So let's get back to it. #7. BOOTY CALL                  I was actually on a list of someone’s booty call some time ago and boy was I livid!! A booty call is a call for sex from someone who don’t wants nothing to do with you but fulfill their specific sexual need at the moment. So your ex or that person you don’t have a relationship with but have sex with? You call whenever you’re lonely and vice versa. When you are feeling the pressure of the valentine this season, exercise some self-control. Don’t dial those numbers and don’t pick that call because you know what’s going to go down at the end of the day. #8. VALUE. One of the things I have discovered with people who have pre-marital
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